- Introduction
- Importance of love
- Definitions of love
- wanting what is truly best for your neighbor- St. Thomas (7/14/11)
- Types of love
- Natural love, part of our biologig/evolutionary make up. Un learned
- Eros (3/8/12)
- Affection (3/8/12)
- Friendship (3/8/12)
- Supra natural love- agape, the topic of the remander of this paper
- Preconditions for love (3/8/12)
- You can not love if you are not free. (2/25/11)
- What love is not
- A feeling
- Source of true love is fruit of the the holy spirit
- Love like fruit is a gift of God that we can not earn.
- The main thing blocking love is guilt and shame. 2/17/11
- The ultimate test of love is a willingness to suffer for the other is needed. 93/8/12)
- While we can’not earn it there are things we can do to cultivate it.
- Controverises
- Becoming one with the beloved vs remaining separate (M. Scott Pedk)
- Method of this outline
- Corth list 15 things that love is
- All of the charistericts of love must exist together for it to be true love
- Kindness without selflessness is not love but selfintrest
- “Humility” without selflessness is not only not true love but not true humility
- Without honesty love is fantasty
2) Patient
a) Versions
1) Is patient
2) Never gives up (The Message)
3) Is patient (New Living Translation)
4) Endures long and is patient (Amplified Bible)
5) Is long-suffering (Young’s Literal Translation)
b) Patients is the ability to delay gratification, it is also being content with the present.
c) We can become so focused in the past or future that we lose the present
d) The importance of patients
1) Patientiences is also listed seperatly as one of the fruits of the spirit
2 ) The marshmallow experiment
e) The key is living in the moment
1) We can only experience God in the present
f) All the other aspects of love depend on patients if we are not present in the moment we will miss opertunities to be kind.and politr
3) Kind
a) Is kind
b) Cares more for others than for self (The Message)
c) Kind (New Living Translation)
d) Is kind (Amplified Bible)
e) Is kind (Young’s Literal Translation)
4) Content
a) Is not jealous
b) Doesn’t want what it doesn’t have (The Message)
c) Is not jealous (New Living Translation)
d) Never is envious nor boils over with jealously (Amplified Bible)
e) Doth not envy (Young’s Literal Translation)
5) Not attention seeking
a) Does not brag
b) Doesn’t strut (The Message)
c) Is not boastful (New Living Translation)
d) Is not boastful or vainglorious (Amplified Bible)
e) Doth not vaunt itself (Young’s Literal Translation)
6) Humble
a) Is not arrogant
b) Doesn’t have a swelled head (The Message)
c) Is not proud (New Living Translation)
d) Is not conceited (arrogant and inflated with pride) (Amplified Bible)
e) Is not puffed up (Young’s Literal Translation)
f) The principle of annomunity
g) The first step in humility is to admit our pride
h) Never defend yourself
i) Never seek honor
7) Polite
a) Does not act unbecomingly
b) Doesn’t force itself on others (The Message)
c) Is not rude (New Living Translation)
d) Is not rude (unmannerly) and does not act unbecomingly (Amplified Bible)
e) Doth not act unseemly (Young’s Literal Translation)
8) Selfless
a) Does not seek its own
b) Isn’t always “me first” (The Message)
c) Does not demand its own way (New Living Translation)
d) Does not insist on its own rights or its own way, for it is not self-seeking (Amplified Bible)
e) Doth not seek its own things (Young’s Literal Translation)
9) Easygoing
a) Is not provoked
b) Doesn’t fly of the handle (The Message)
c) Is not irritable (New Living Translation)
d) Is not touchy or fretful or resentful (Amplified Bible)
e) Is not provoked (Young’s Literal Translation)
a) Does not take into account a wringed suddered.
b) Doesn't keep score of the sins of others (The Message)
c) Keeps no record of being wronged (New Living Translation)
d) it takes no account of the evil done to it [it pays no attention to a suffered wrong] (Amplified Bible)
e) Doth not impute evil (Young’s Literal Translation)
11) Just
a) Does not rejoice in unrighteousness
b) Doesn't revel when others grovel (The Message)
c) Does not rejoice about injustice (New Living Translation)
d) Does not rejoice at injustice and unrighteousness (Amplified Bible)
e) Rejoiceth not over the unrighteousness (Young’s Literal Translation)
12) True
a) Rejoices with truth
b) Takes pleasure in the flowering of truth (The Message)
c) Rejoices whenever the truth wins out (New Living Translation)
d) Rejoices when right and truth prevail (Amplified Bible)
e) Rejoiceth with the truth (Young’s Literal Translation)
13) Takes it as it comes
a) Bears all things
b) Puts up with anything (The Message)
c) Never gives up (New Living Translation)
d) Bears up under anything and everything that comes (Amplified Bible)
e) All things it beareth (Young’s Literal Translation)
14) Faith
a) Believes all things
b) Trusts God always (The Message)
c) Never loses faith (New Living Translation)
d) Is ever ready to believe the best of every person (Amplified Bible)
e) All it believeth (Young’s Literal Translation)
15) Hope
a) Hopes all things
b) Always looks for the best, Never looks back (The Message)
c) Is always hopeful (New Living Translation)
d) Hopes are fadeless under all circumstances (Amplified Bible)
e) All it hopeth (Young’s Literal Translation)
16) Endurance
a) Endures all things
b) But keeps going to the end (The Message)
c) Endures through every circumstance (New Living Translation)
d) Endures everything [without weakening] (Amplified Bible)
e) All it endureth (Young’s Literal Translation)
Much of the confusion we have about love comes from our sloppy use of language when we speak about love. When we say we"love ice cream" we usually don't mean we love ice cream. If we truly loved ice cream we would never think of eating ice cream. Eating ice cream destroys the ice cream and to truly love something is to never do anything that would harm the thing we love. What we mean when we say we "love ice cream" is that we love eating ice cream. When people say they love money some mean they love having money while others mean they love spending money. You can love having money and spending money but the one you love more will determine if you save it or spend it. When a man says he loves a woman he may mean he loves a woman and/or he may mean he loves having sex with a woman. The two things can be in some situations the opposite of each other if having sex with a woman causes the woman harm.
2/13/11 "Love is like playing the piano. First you must learn to play by the rules, then you must
forget the rules and play from your heart."
2/16/11: Love is becoming one with another. 3/9/11 or being identified with another
3/9/11: Hate is not the opposite of love. Hate is actually a part of the love process. Love does not have a true opposite . The closest thing to the opposite of love is the absence of love and the closest thing to the absence of love is apathy. If you love something you will hate whatever stands between you and the object of your love. You can not love justice without hating injustice. You can not love God without hating evil. You can not love everything. You can not love justice and injustice. You can not love God and evil.